What is Male Minds Counselling Vision
At Male Minds Counselling, we recognise that boys and men do not exist in isolation—they are shaped by systems that often dictate who they should be and how they should act. From family expectations to educational pressures, from the criminal justice system to wider societal norms, men are often taught to suppress, endure, and conform. But here, we offer something different.
We provide a sanctuary of radical honesty, where men and boys can speak freely about anything—no matter how taboo, shameful, or deeply buried—with complete confidentiality and without fear of judgment. This is a space where the unspeakable can be spoken, because only by bringing everything into the light can true transformation begin.
We believe that breaking free from generational cycles of pain, silence, and repression requires courage, knowledge, and the right tools. Our mission is to equip and empower men with the weapons they need to face their shadow, confront the forces that have shaped them, and build new paths forward.
Through a culturally competent, inclusive, and intersectional approach, we honour each man’s lived experience, understanding that race, class, sexuality, faith, and life circumstances all play a role in shaping their struggles and strengths. We meet men where they are, whether they are navigating personal trauma, family dynamics, or institutional challenges.
We stay true to core counselling principles while innovating in ways that deeply resonate with men—using narrative therapy, action-based approaches, and direct but compassionate dialogue to engage clients in ways that feel real and transformative.
At Male Minds Counselling, we are not just offering therapy—we are offering a new way for men to see themselves, take ownership of their lives, and forge their own path towards healing, strength, and personal freedom
Access to Your Notes and GDPR
Under the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR), you have the right to access any notes I keep about your therapy sessions. These notes are kept securely and are for the purpose of helping me provide you with the best possible support. You can request to see your notes at any time during our work together.
If you would like to review your notes, please feel free to let me know, and I will provide them to you in a timely manner. This is part of your right to control and understand the information I hold about you. I am committed to ensuring your privacy and transparency throughout the therapy process.
Confidentiality in Therapy
In therapy, confidentiality is a cornerstone. Except in very rare circumstances, what you share with your therapist is kept private. If you have any concerns about confidentiality, please feel free to ask. I am always open to discussing how your information is handled and the situations where confidentiality may be broken. However, there are a few exceptions to this rule. As a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP), I must follow the BACP's ethical framework and its exemptions to confidentiality. These include:
Risk of Harm
If there is an immediate risk of harm to yourself or others, I am required to break confidentiality in order to protect safety.
Child Protection
If there is any concern that a child is at risk of harm, I may need to report this to the appropriate authorities.
Criminal Offences
If you disclose plans to commit a serious criminal offence, I may be required to share that information with the relevant authorities.
Court Orders
If I am subpoenaed by a court of law to provide information related to your case, I may be required to break confidentiality.
Supervision, Training
To ensure I provide the best support to you, I may discuss our sessions with a clinical supervisor or during training, but your identity will remain confidential.
When would I have to break confidentiality
At Male Minds Counselling, we take your privacy and confidentiality seriously. This is a space where you can speak freely about anything without fear of judgment. However, there are some situations where we may have to break confidentiality due to legal and ethical responsibilities.
1. If You Are at Serious Risk of Harm
We will always try to keep your information private, but if we believe you are in immediate danger, we may need to act. This includes:
- Self-Harm & Substance Use – If you are seriously harming yourself or misusing substances in a life-threatening way, we may need to seek help for you.
- Suicide – If you are planning to take your own life or have attempted suicide, we may have to involve others to ensure your safety.
- Harming Others – If you disclose plans to harm someone else or are involved in kidnapping, murder, terrorism, or rape, we are legally required to report it.
2. If a Child or Vulnerable Adult Is at Risk
If you share information about abuse or neglect involving a child, elderly person, or dependent adult, we must report this to protect them.
3. If the Law Requires It
Some situations legally require us to share information, including:
- Court Orders & Subpoenas – If a judge legally demands access to your therapy notes, we must comply.
- Coroner Requests – If a client has passed away, a coroner may request their counselling records.
- Terrorism, Drug Trafficking & Money Laundering – By law, we must report any knowledge of these crimes.
- Financial Crimes – If you disclose crimes like identity theft or money laundering that involve significant financial loss or gain, we may have to report it.
4. Police Requests – Your Rights
- If the police ask for your therapy notes, we cannot provide them without your written permission.
- If you choose to share your notes with the police, you must request them from us and provide them yourself.
5. What Happens If a Client Passes Away?
If a client dies, the executor of their will or a close relative may request access to NHS health records, including counselling notes.
6. If You Are Seeing Us Through an Agency
If you receive counselling through an agency, your notes may be stored on their system, meaning they already have access to them.
Your Right to Privacy
We are committed to creating a space where you feel safe to talk about anything. If we ever need to break confidentiality, we will always try to discuss it with you first, unless the situation is urgent.
If you have any questions about confidentiality, please feel free to ask.
Get in touch
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about how counselling works, or to arrange an initial assessment appointment. This enables us to discuss the reasons you are thinking of coming to counselling, whether it could be helpful for you and whether I am the right therapist to help.
You can also call me on +44 78528 98135 if you would prefer to leave a message or speak to me first. I am happy to discuss any queries or questions you may have prior to arranging an initial appointment.
All enquires are usually answered within 24 hours, and all contact is strictly confidential and uses secure phone and email services.