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Why Gangs Humiliate Teenage Boys to Recruit Them – And How Therapy Can Help

Why Gangs Humiliate Boys — And How Male Minds Counselling Can Help

An estimated 27,000 children in England are involved with gangs, many recruited as young as nine. But what’s less understood is the role of humiliation in that process. This blog explores the disturbing tactics gangs use to break boys down — from public beatings to sexual violence — and how these methods destroy identity, isolate them from loved ones, and trap them in cycles of trauma and control. At Male Minds Counselling, we understand these wounds. This post sheds light on the dark psychology behind gang recruitment — and how we help boys and men reclaim dignity, heal shame, and rebuild their lives from the inside out.

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Who Are Down Low Men, Really? – How Many Men Are Living on the Down Low in the UK?

In the UK, it's estimated that between 165,000 and 390,000 men may be living what many call a “down low” life — men who have sex with other men but do not identify as gay or bisexual. Some of them are married to women. Others are fathers. Many identify as straight. And most will never […]
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Why Male Rape Messes boys and Men Up So Badly – Even Though People Have Sex Every Day

Why Male Rape Hurts So Deeply - Even Though People Have Sex Every Day People have sex all the time… so why does rape affect someone so badly? This is one of those uncomfortable questions that people often think but don’t say out loud: "If people have sex all the time, what makes rape so […]
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Why Should Men and Boys Care About Intersectionality

What Is Intersectionality in the Context of Britain? There’s a word that’s been gaining more ground in social justice conversations across the UK: intersectionality. But like many academic terms, it’s often misunderstood, oversimplified, or ignored altogether in mainstream spaces. Yet, for those of us working in mental health, education, activism, or community spaces, understanding intersectionality […]

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