Behind the Paywall – The Mental and Emotional Life of a Male OnlyFans Performer
On the surface, being a male sex performer whether through studios or platforms like OnlyFans seems like a dream gig: money, attention, sexual freedom. To many, it's the ultimate rebellion against shame. But underneath the filters and carefully angled nudes lies a life that’s psychologically complex, emotionally exhausting, and mentally demanding in ways most don’t […]
Support for boys and young men facing GCSEs, A-Levels & university exams
Inside His Mind: The Cognitive Experience of Exam Stress for Boys and Young Men It often starts with a vague feeling — not quite panic, but something heavy. His brain is busy, but not productive. Thoughts don’t flow — they loop. One part of his mind is saying, “You need to revise.” Another whispers, “It’s […]
Redundant, Not Useless- How to Rebuild After Job Loss Why Men Losing Their Job Feels Like Losing Themselves, And How to Get Back on Track
Redundancy is becoming an unsettling reality for many in the UK, but if you live in London, the threat is even greater. A recent study by personal finance experts Wealth of Geeks found that Londoners are more likely to face redundancy in 2024 than those in any other region. Between January and October 2023 alone, the capital […]
Black, African, and Depressed – Naming the Unnamed and Creating a New Word for Depression in African and Black Communities
I had a very interesting conversation with a friend Kieran recently, one that got me reflecting deeply on the intersection of language, culture, and emotional expression. As we talked about the way sound and music affect our emotions and physiology, I realised that the words we use to describe things like depression may not always […]
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